She Wants to Relax in Your Direction.

A woman needs to trust you can take charge.

In every area—money, emotions, sex, and life. You don’t need to do everything, but she needs to feel your direction.

Some women like being in charge. It’s a masculine trait, in men and women. If she has more masculine energy, she’ll prefer to lead most of the time.

But if she’s more feminine, she’ll want to relax sometimes. She wants to trust you. If you can’t take charge, she’ll feel it. And she’ll step in. She won’t be able to relax.

When she can relax, she glows. You’ve seen it. One moment she’s tired or stressed. Then, after some praise or love, she lights up. She shines.

If you want her to shine more often, you need to lead. You don’t have to control her. But you need to know where you’re going, and how you’ll get there—financially and spiritually.

If you’re unsure, she’ll know. Even if you don’t say a word, she’ll feel it. You don’t need to be rich. You just need to be responsible. She wants to trust that you know what you’re doing.

Same with your spiritual direction. She needs to know where the relationship is heading. What’s the bigger picture? If she feels you’ve lost your way, she’ll take charge. If you’re always working or watching TV, she’ll think, "Is this it?"

If you’re unclear—about money or life—she can’t relax. She’ll take over. Her radiance will fade as she moves into her masculine energy.

Some women need to develop this energy. That’s fine. But if she’s already developed it, she may want to let it go and lean on yours. You can tell if her direction is good for her. If she’s happier, it’s working. If she’s stressed, it’s a sign she’s doing too much masculine work. Maybe because you aren’t stepping up.

Being responsible isn’t about doing more. It’s about knowing your purpose. And building your life around it. She wants to know she can trust your direction. That your train is going where she wants to go.

It doesn’t matter who makes more money. She just wants to feel your clarity, your wisdom, your direction. When she trusts you, she can relax. And shine.

-SML