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Turn Your Lust Into Gifts.
When you see a beautiful woman, it’s natural to feel energy in your body.
Most men interpret this as sexual desire. Instead of wasting that energy in fantasy, learn to circulate it.
Breathe deeply.
Feel the energy moving through your body. Treat it as a gift. A gift that can heal you. A gift that can heal the world.
Don’t deny the attraction. Enjoy it fully. But don’t let it get stuck in your head or your genitals. Circulate it. Feel it move through your body. And return it to the world, from your heart.
For most men, sexual energy goes in two directions: to the head or the genitals.
You either fantasize or feel lust. But these are just the north and south poles of your body. A superior man circulates that energy. He doesn’t let it get stuck in fantasies or lustful cravings.
The purpose of sexual desire is creation. Yes, reproduction is one part of it. But you have more to offer the world than children. Beautiful women inspire more than just biological creation. They inspire art, creativity, and service. Women are muses for many men.
Without women, some men wouldn’t care about the world at all.
You’ve probably felt inspired by a woman before. But that inspiration fades. Most men don’t know how to nurture their connection to the feminine. They let it burn out in a moment of fantasy or ejaculation. Then they search for more inspiration—through women, or other things like alcohol or drugs.
But you can change this.
If you learn to control your sexual energy, you can stay inspired. You can break the cycle of lust and depletion. Use your sexual desire as a force of inspiration.
Feel your lust. Really feel it. It’s not just about sex. It’s about your desire to unite with the feminine. To penetrate deeply. To give your full self. To lose yourself in giving.
This can be your way of life, not just a moment of lust. When you feel desire for a woman, breathe deeply. Let the desire grow. Don’t let it stay in your head or genitals. Circulate it through your body. Let your heart feel it. Let it fill you. Then, share it with the world.
Let the energy of women inspire your gifts.
Don’t waste it in lust.
-SML