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Women Are Not Liars.
“Keeping your word” is a masculine trait.
For the feminine, words reflect emotions. A woman says what she feels in the moment, not always what she means long-term. When she says, "I hate you" or "I don’t want to go to the movies," it’s her feelings speaking. And those feelings can change in five minutes.
For a man, words are promises. For a woman, words are expressions of feelings.
When you listen to her, don’t take her words as fixed truth. Listen like you would to the wind or the ocean. She’s expressing her emotions, not laying out a plan. Her words flow with her feelings, and those feelings shift with the moment.
She might say she doesn’t want to go to the movies. But if you hug her and lift her spirits, she might change her mind. It’s not about the movie. It’s about how she feels with you in that moment.
This isn’t lying. It’s how the feminine works.
If you expect her to stick to every word like you would, you’ll be frustrated. Her truth is her feelings. And those feelings change. So when she says she wants to move to Pittsburgh today, but changes her mind tomorrow, it’s because her feelings changed.
Don’t argue about what she said. Focus on the love between you.
The rule is simple: only believe what she says when love is flowing between you. And even then, understand that she’s expressing her feelings, not her final decision. Her feelings will shift with the moment.
Women aren’t liars. But their feelings are in constant motion.
That’s why you, as a man, must make your own decisions. You can’t base them on her changing feelings. Hear her, feel her, take in her emotions—but act from your deepest truth. Otherwise, if you bend to her moods, you’ll end up resenting her.
So listen carefully. Feel her deeply. But make your choices from your own core.
When she changes her mind, don’t be upset. Enjoy her shifting energy. Appreciate her emotional sensitivity. And know you’re always making the best decision, with her feelings—and your truth—in mind.
-SML